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Career Day

For most writers, a conference is like a job fair. It can often make or break your writing career. Beyond the immediate benefits of learning crafting and style points, it can also lead to making the right contacts. Put your best foot forward, and maybe come away with a lead that leads to a lead that leads to a lead on a publishing contract.

That’s why, for many of us, when the opportunity arises, we try to attend one.

Last year when I was working, I started putting money aside, saving for a conference.

I really wanted to go to ACFW last fall, but I had a newborn, and with the travel expenses and everything else, I just couldn’t make it work. So I kept my stash safely stashed, waiting for the next best opportunity.

I happened to be talking to a writer friend, someone I met at a local conference a couple years ago, and she mentioned she was considering going to the San Diego University writer’s conference.

Long story short, we worked it out to go together. We leave tomorrow morning, driving to San Diego together.

All the details fell into place, in a way that only God could have orchestrated. For example, I had just the right amount saved to pay for the cost of the conference plus the three advanced reading appointments I was able to opt in, with a little left for travel expenses.

I was actually a little concerned about the travel expenses, though, because the cost of the hotel was pretty steep. My friend and I were going to share a room, so that would help, but it would have been nice to get one or two more roommates to share the cost.

But, as no one else we knew was planning to attend, we decided to make it work ourselves. As for traveling, we determined it would be more cost effective to drive from Phoenix to San Diego and split gas than fly and rent a car or take a taxi or shuttle.

We met one morning to iron out details, and in the process, decided to check on other accommodations, just to see if we could cut costs a little more. My cousin works for Marriott, so we called her to see if she could get a room at a nearby branch using her friends and family discount for us. The hotel where the conference was being held was advertising rates of $180/night, with an extra $10 for each additional person. So, for two nights, after taxes and whatnot else, we were each looking at over $200 in charges.

My cousin could get us a room at a nearby Marriott for $109 a night, or another one, a little distance further, for even less. At such a significant cost savings, we decided that despite that a lot of networking happens on-site and it’s a good idea to stay on location if possible, that it would be worth it to sleep elsewhere.

As this discussion progressed, I recalled that my husband’s aunt and uncle own a condo in San Diego. Long logistics short, we managed to arrange with them to use their condo for those two nights. It’s a “happy coincidence” and a “fortunate turn of events.” Except that clearly God knows what He’s doing, and is providing for me in this. It would have been a strain on my regular budget, over my conference stash, otherwise, and with this blessing my expenses will be just exactly what I had saved.

So tomorrow morning, right after I drop my kids off at school, I get to head out.

My prayer for this conference is that I would make some contacts and meet with the people I’m supposed to meet, the ones God knows will be most beneficial to my writing.

Thanks, everyone, for your continued support my writing, and if you’re inclined to pray, please pray for travel safety for my friend and me, for sanity for our husbands who are home with our kids, and for a good conference that helps propel my writing.

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About Avily Jerome

Avily Jerome is a married, stay-at-home mom of four living in Phoenix, AZ. She is active in her church on the worship team. She writes Christian speculative fiction, her ideas ranging from almost-real-world action/adventures to supernatural thrillers. When she's not writing or parenting, she loves to read, go hiking with friends, and crochet baby blankets.

8 comments on “Career Day

  1. Yay Avily! Hope you have lots of fun and get to know all the right people! :)

  2. Avily, I have been to this conference before, about ten years ago. I wasn’t planning on going myself because I can’t afford it, even though I live in San Diego and can sleep in my own bed. Are you going to stick around town for any length of time?

    Good luck with the connections. We had rain last weekend, but it’s looking nice today.

    • How was it? I’m really looking forward to it.

      I’m not really sticking around; getting in Friday night and leaving Sunday when it’s over. Pretty much in and out, since I’m leaving a six-month-old at home. :)

      • First, let me be sure we’re talking about the same conference. When I first read your post, I thought you said San Diego STATE University, which is a public college and whose conference is mainstream. They have no problem luring New York publishers out of the freezing cold to have an expenses-paid vacation in San Diego in January! The workshops were good and the teachers/speakers were top-notch.

        The Advance Reader appointments (which were my main reason for going) did not do much for me. First off, two out of the three people I wanted to meet ended up not attending. I was not given the option to get a full refund and back out of the conference when these two dropped out. They did refund one appointment and gave me a second one with an agent that turned out to be a total waste of time. He didn’t accept fantasy authors at all and he was rather miffed anyone told me otherwise.

        The last one I paid to meet really played with my head. It was the acquiring editor for Bantam Spectra. She smiled a lot, gave me valuable information, and suggested rewrites. I did EVERYTHING she asked and I sent it to her as “requested” along with a personal note reminding her who I was and where we met (I sat next to her at lunch and admired her opal rings). But I got no reply. At all. I followed up after six months. She admitted she lost it. I sent it AGAIN. I got back a standard xerox rejection with no reasons. I felt she owed me a bit more than that after I basically rewrote an entire book to her exact specifications and then waited longer than I should have, TWICE!

        That one ten-minute appointment worked out to $180/hr, ON TOP of the other conference fees. I personally don’t think she was ever really interested in my book, but I sure got my hopes up after that “fix it and then send it to me” line. But then again, I’m a gullible fool.

        However, that was at least ten years ago and that was San Diego STATE University not San Diego University. San Diego University is the Roman Catholic college with the big turquoise-domed chapel that stands on a hill. It’s a major landmark. That college may be almost as old as the city itself, since San Diego was founded by Spanish missionaries. I have not attended any conferences sponsored by SDU, but if this is a Christian writer’s conference, it would be SDU and not SDSU.

        Have fun in either case and let us know how you liked it.

      • Okay, I wrote it wrong. It is SDSU. Thanks for the input, I appreciate it!

  3. Traveling Mercies, prayers for all the connections He wants you to find, find you!
    I enjoy reading your blogs, thanks for sharing!

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